My pseudo-girlfriend wanted to go to Indonesia this summer. She keeps asking me if I will come with her. I say yes every time – and then, two or three days later, she asks again. Today I replied that I am getting the impression that she really doesn’t want me along anyway, since she keeps asking.

Now she wants to go to Australia instead, with some “friends”.

Time to break up. The only reason I am not doing so is that, since she isn’t here right now anyway, there would be no practical difference between breaking up and not doing so, and as soon as you do break up you change the status quo and can’t take any other course of action. Better to save it for later. And meanwhile, I can look for a decent replacement.